8 Things I Miss About South Korea

I guess a post like this was in the works from the moment I stepped on my flight leaving Seoul. I look back with great nostalgia and am often smiling to myself thinking about all the adventures that I had, struggles, fun and moments of peace. I listened to a lot of k-pop whilst there as they are usually playing in all the shops and even outside stores (especially phone stores for some reason) and even today, I am brought back in an instant if I hear any song that I had heard often enough or have associated with my stay in Korea.

Change in Seasons
It was my first time living somewhere where I got to experience the complete changes in season. Here in Australia, our seasons are quite mild relative to each other. As our climate is different, we don’t really have many trees which are deciduous so we don’t get the wash of autumn colours. It doesn’t snow. Right now, I’m seeing so many pictures and videos from places where the leaves have changed colour and I am envious of being able to have such places just to be in nature and walk in.

Seeing the change of seasons before your eyes really gives you an obvious time marker- something that I was not use to. For me, it added some urgency into my life and to stop sitting on my hands. Here, the summers and winters feel longer and spring and autumn are missed if you blink. It feels like time is drawn out more. I also miss the range of activities and events that the different seasons can bring adding to the excitement of each season.

Plastic Recycling
I actually really miss plastic recycling. Being able to put plastic food bags, takeaway containers, food packaging and bubble wrap all into the recycling bins downstairs in the apartment general rubbish area was such a great way to be able to easily get to recycle what so much of our food now comes in. In Australia, we do have plastic recycling…..if you save it all up and take it to the supermarket. Which makes it a more cumbersome process.

Delicious Healthy Food (for cheap)
While prices in South Korea have also gotten more expensive, it’s still a lot more affordable than here. For $10, you are able to have a sizzling bowl of hot soup, rice and a range of side dishes (with free refills). Korean bbq was also quite affordable if you went with some friends. Drinks too (especially from the convenience store) are also friendly on the wallet and I frequently helped myself to a strawberry smoothie throughout summer for $3 a cup.

Transport system
I miss not having to wait more than 10 minutes for a bus or metro. This meant that I didn’t need to plan so much about having to make a certain train or bus. Public transport is frequent, clean and quiet. Oh I’ve missed the quietness! I have a short fuse for people who play their music on their phones for the whole carriage to hear and worse now, people scrolling tiktok or instagram with no headphones! It seems like I experience this every time I take the train here.

Green Spaces
Contrary to some assumptions that South Korea might be all high rises (and in some areas it is), there are plenty of green spaces, nature walkways, big parks and mountains. South Korea is a mountainous country so travelling between cities also means getting to see mountains. In my town, I often walked to through a hilly forest area behind a university which has been made for walkers and also included exercise facilities. There was also a large lake nearby with a park built around it which was filled with a constant stream of people exercising and small children riding their scooters. A lot of old desolate areas have been transformed into outdoor recreational areas like the old stream Cheonggyecheon and areas under highways. With most people living in high rises in the big cities, they’ve really catered the outdoors to include plenty of walking tracks. In contrast, many Australians live in houses and our cities are very spread out. As most of our cities are along the coast, land is previous and big park spaces are hard to come by. Being a dry country too, the further inland you go, the more barren the parks become (not to mention all the deadly bugs).

Cafes
I had written a post before with pictures of some of the cafe’s I’ve been too. They were peaceful places (except those in Seoul on the weekend) where care had been taken into creating a ambient place to relax or work. Plants, soft lighting, big wooden tables and simple decorations were usually the elements of most of these cafes. The drinks were not just your matcha latte but included other options for non coffee drinkers. I miss being able to go to one and enjoy my drink while getting lost in a book or chatting with friends. They were not places where people rushed in and out but enjoyed the day away. There was also this culture of going in for a drink only or to pair it with a dessert which eliminated the constant kitchen smells and loud noises.

Walking
I miss being more accidentally active during my day. Being a teacher meant that I was standing most of the working day and had to take public transport daily, often having to stand for part of my ride. I had walks to and from both bus stops. I took the fire stairs at work which is open all the time and what the students use as there were just not enough space with the 2 elevators. Over the weekend, as I was out exploring, I continued to clock up the kms. This was the fittest I had been in my whole life. Certainly the way the city is built, helps with this with shops being all walkable from apartments and always seeing people outside. It’s harder when your city is a city built for cars and shops are further away.

Appearances
Something I did not expect to miss, the superficiality around appearances. I don’t miss the heavy make up, the unrealistic beauty standards or everyone sporting the same look but I miss the notion of taking a little more care or having more intention in looking presentable. Without this added societal pressure, I’ve gone back to my old ways of messy bun and overly casual look. I really do miss looking a little more polished but when you stand out if you are, it has made me relax my way of dressing. I guess this is something for me to work on.

Do you miss any aspects of other countries that you’ve lived or travelled to?

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13 responses to “8 Things I Miss About South Korea”

  1. Forestwood Avatar

    Oh Sophie, I miss Scandinavia and the Japanese Autumn all the time, so I can relate to you missing the changing seasons. It is what I hear most of all from people who move to Australia. I should live in Melbourne or Tassie! That is why the first photo caught my eye! It is divine. The sounds of K pop and cafes where you can linger sound quite inviting. Did you make many Korean friends during your sojourn there, or mainly ex-pats?

    1. Lingo in Transit Avatar

      I have thought about Melbourne too but perhaps not Tassie….that would really make me feel like I’m at the end of the earth (literally too). I’ve just realised I haven’t been to many cafes here that have ongoing music. No-one lingers anymore. Mainly expats- I did meet some Korean friends but there was a slight language barrier.

      1. Forestwood Avatar

        I imagine the language barrier would have been a block and prevented you making friends with the Koreans. People would need to be English speaking Koreans and while that is no problem in westernised Scandinavia, it is an issue in Asian countries except Singapore. You must have felt lonely at times?

      2. Lingo in Transit Avatar

        Yes, if I knew abit more Korean- maybe it would’ve been different. It’s also a matter of finding locals who want to engage with foreigners. My one good Korean friend I made was born abroad and returned to Korea for university. Yep, I sure did but was maybe only a handful of times.

      3. Forestwood Avatar

        I guess the description of your experience can make an Australian more conscious of and empathic to a new Australian’s experience arriving in Australia. How hard it must have been for immigrants and refugees in the past? Given that English has only recently been spoken by other cultures. In past centuries, there was a lack of awareness by Aussies – they certainly didn’t know or understand any other languages at all. Still don’t in many respects. Thus, the role of ethnic clubs was vital. I noticed this with the Norwegian club in Queensland. One a popular club for Norwegian immigrants to connect with their kinsman and speak their native tongue, the membership is now dwindling as Norwegians easily integrate into the community because they are fluent in English when they arrive.
        Language is so important for building connections.

      4. Lingo in Transit Avatar

        It must have been for the early immigrants. There are more religious centres and social groups now. As you say, English is more widespread now so perhaps many migrants know a little/a lot before arriving.

  2. Rebecca Avatar

    From this post, you’re giving me all the more reason to head to South Korea! Not to stay, per say, but to visit and see what it’s all about. Same thing for me with France: I also miss the convenience of public transport (trains, buses, etc). And the food (especially outside of Paris) is relatively inexpensive…and mostly organic! I hope you get to return to Korea sooner than later, whether it’s for another stay or just for a visit!

    1. Lingo in Transit Avatar

      Thank you! I hope to return sooner rather than later too.

  3. travelling_han Avatar

    This is a lovely post, South Korea has really left its mark on you – and understandably so 🙂

  4. Juliette Avatar

    After my trip to South Korea I regularly miss a lot of aspects of the Korean life (although I only experienced it for a month), so I was browsing your South Korea posts and was very curious to read this post of yours and see if you missed the same things as me!
    It is funny how where we are from influences such things because many elements of your list I didn’t think too much about it!
    I do miss the cafés a lot though, that’s for sure!!

    1. Lingo in Transit Avatar

      I’m interested to see what you miss (if you’re going to be writing about it)! I just read through my list again- they got rid of plastic bag/chip packing recycling here so now we can only recycle plastic bottles and milk cartons. Our whole train system has been a mess over the past week because of industrial action hahaha.

      1. Juliette Avatar

        That’s crazy! Here where I live I have so many bins just for recylcing ahah! I didn’t plan to write about what I miss but that might actually be a good idea for an article! The first thing that comes to mind are the cafés for sure!

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